Thursday, January 27, 2011

我想和你一起,慢慢地老去



嗯,想和你一起慢慢地变老。

其实 没什么理由
我只是想 就坐在你的身边
看着你 慢慢地老去
看着皱眉悄悄地爬上你的脸庞
看你渐渐延长的鱼尾纹
看着白丝渐渐地漫上你的满头发

我俩坐在摇椅,
让我倾听你最美的心跳,
让我在你疲惫的时候, 
给你泡一杯热茶。
你挽着我的手臂,
一起看无趣的电视剧。

当我们老得再走不动的时候
我们就抱着 
坐在一张温暖的沙发里
数着对方脸上的皱纹
和头上的白发
一起老去
一起慢慢地老去
然后一起慢慢地死去
祥和地一起地死去

我们两个人将化成一堆白骨
也许下辈子 我们就可以还拥抱在一起

我从来没有多大的奢望
只是想着陪着你 
一起慢慢地老去
因为我不舍得,
让你一个人孤单老去。

Wednesday, January 26, 2011

Timing很重要

~ 在错的时间,错的地点,遇见对的人 ~ 是一场心动
~ 在错的时间,对的地点, 面对错的人 ~ 是一串串的叹息!
~ 在对的时间,错的地点,等着对的人 ~ 荒谬!
~ 在对的时间, 对的地点, 遇见对的人 ~ 是幸福的!


不止时间,地点还是人。。

很多时候,
提出问题的时间很重要
同样一个问题,
提出的时间不同,
得到的答案也会不同。
选择在对的时间说对的话
适当的时间做对的东西。

如果你看到这个blog,
想对你说,
没有生气了,
气消了。

你也知道啦,
生气的时候,
火来了,
脑子里什么都没想
什么鬼话都说得出
什么事情也做得出

你认识我这样久,
我也不是一个霸道,野蛮的人
你也常说,
如果我不生气,
我是很可爱的啦!

你可以过你正常的生活,
我只是不想你在我生气的时候,
还做我讨厌的东西。

在适当的时间,
说对的话
做对的东西
我生气的时候,
不是火上加油
而是尽快扑火
ok?


Sunday, January 23, 2011

3 Things I can't live without

1. Camera
I can't live without MY CAMERA!!!!
It's just like an extension of my hands.
I can't go out without taking pictures.
It's my life.


2. Internet
I used to bring my laptop along with me when I travel
to ensure that I can easily find a place for Internet Access
I do not need super high speed internet,
just a normal internet speed
for me to login my facebook, msn, blogspot, forum..etc
That's more than enough.
I feel like dying when streamyx in my house is down


3 Handphone
Can you imagine your life without mobile phone?
I left it at home sometimes and it's like I'am all alone.
My requirements for HP are very simple.
As long as can make call, receive call and SMS.
Of course if someone wanna buy me ip4 or BB torch
that will be even better :)

Saturday, January 22, 2011

57月纪念日

0122 - 跟你在一起57个月。
凌晨12am,你打电话来,
我抢先一步跟你说,
"happy anniversary"
你说你记得,
带着半信半疑相信你
因为你每次都忘记。

男人天生对这些日子都不大敏感吧
虽然是纪念日,
没有什么特别庆祝
毕竟不是yearly anniversary.

早上,
你送我去检查眼睛
挨了一顿骂
因为我把东西乱乱放,
然后找不到。

中午,
非常塞车
华人新年快来临了
天气热爆了
吃完午餐,
还顺便吃了你的臭脾气
难怪晚餐时间了还是挺饱的

Month Anniversary
没有庆祝,
没有鲜花,
没有香槟,
没有美酒,
没有上高级餐厅,
没有礼物,
不用紧,小问题而已。
至少在这一天,
疼我比平常多那么一丁点儿
那就好了。
Happy Anniversary To You & Me

Monday, January 17, 2011

Life After Marriage

"Did my life change after I got married?'
"How I feel? Any different?"
Many friends asked me this same questions,
over and over again..besides the baby questions..

Well, I am still doing good.
I feel comfortable and glad that our wedding was finally over.
We had painstakingly planned for one year plus
and everything ended in less than 24 hour.

Thank GOD that we had a lot of help from friends
and we persevere through the ups and downs of planning.
Hubby said we can be the part time wedding planner
especially for last minute wedding couple.
Hehehehehehe~~

Actually,I've only been married for about 1.5 months now
At this moment, my marriage life is lovely,
much better than expected.
Yes, we still face minor disagreement,
but we do our best to share what our thoughts and feelings are.

Good communication is a fundamental part of a healthy relationship
We don't expect each other mind-read each other.
We learn to speak and express ourselves.
Although most of the time he still want to be the winner
Aiya...let him win la...just a small issue.

Alright, that's all about my life after marriage at this stage..
I will share it again if I have any updates on my marriage life.

Thursday, January 13, 2011

婚姻。孩子

结婚才1个多月,
一直不断面对这样的问题
“有好消息了吗?"
“有BB了吗?"
“几时要有来个兔女郎啊?"
“赶快生一生,还等什么啊"

结婚是为了生孩子吗??
对我来说,
结婚是幸福的开始
孩子只是幸福的延续

不错,一个家庭如果没有孩子,
就不完美了
孩子也不是你想要,
就会马上有
顺其自然,听天由命吧

我们是有打算要有BB的,
但是不是现在
除非意外发生了 :P
不要再问我有怀孕了吗?
OK?
如果有喜了,
我会跟大家分享
谢谢关心
:)

Tuesday, January 11, 2011

1.11.11

It's 11.1.1
how does that make you feel ?

I am lying on the bed,
waiting for the pain killer to take effect.

then I will have a good night sleep tonight.